God design someone specific for you: YOUR ideal couple. With he(she) you never suffer, nor you should pursue, because it was designed to show the true Love of God on your life. There will be no deception, treachery or wickedness.
The Plan of God for your life includes YOUR ideal couple. A common misconception is that your ideal couple only complements in your emotional area … but it is NOT thus. Your ideal couple is your ideal companion in every way, because as an extension of yourself, complements you in each of the areas that make up your life; is your emotional, economic, human, social, intellectual, physical, sexual and spiritual complement. That’s why the IMPORTANCE to join exclusively to your ideal couple because without her NEVER you will attain of 100% of blessing in every areas of your life, you will never be “complete” in any area of your whole life, because is NOT just “someone to share your life”, is YOUR full complement.
That’s why the more interested in you join forever with your ideal couple is God, He longs to reveal you today that there are three things that keep us from knowing our Ideal Couple:
1. Your EX
The key to Love is to have a clean heart. A heart permanently damaged not only difficult us to have relationships, but also prevents us Love with Freedom. One of the key points in people who can not restart your emotional life is just that a part of their lives still trapped in the past. Resentment, fear, hatred or unforgiveness are TREMENDOUS ENEMIES of our emotional area and prevent literally, to know our couple Idonea.
The heart is the container where all those unnecessary burdens that paralyze our future emotional area, the heart is the center of our joys and our sorrows, there the heart is where every one of the emotional problems of our life are stored, there is where the past that sometimes drag as if they were strings. So many people fail to emotional stability with anyone, because although they are physically TODAY, mentally and emotionally they are in YESTERDAY. Many lose many opportunities daily because your mind is more focused on the failure of yesterday that the opportunity of TODAY. In the past there are only memories. No dreams of the past, you can only dream about the future. ‘s necessary, and vital heal our hearts and burn our “coffin of old things”. NOT use your Singleness for damage your heart with fear, marijuana, pornography or rancor , use it to heal your heart in the Presence of God.
Rape, abuse, beatings, deceit, infidelity, broken dreams, anger, bitterness, hatred, resentment, betrayal, sadness, bullying, rejection, ruthless criticisms, humiliation, suicide attempts, fear, anxiety, frustration, economic collapse, disease, pain… having lived those words is terrible, but keep living them is much worse. So many people live in resentment and depression coffins and not have realized that “it” that not released, is precisely what this binding and damaging emotionally and what PREVENTS they achieve the NEW in their lives. Your ideal couple requires a heart Free from past. A person with a heart stuck in the past, wasted the opportunity to meet the right person, because live enclosed by fear of “being hurt” and not notice all the “signs” that God sends and else can not give nor receive Love, because will be filled with bitterness and fear. Many spend their lives asking “confirmations” to God, but the problem is NO that God answer them clearly and quickly, the problem is that they do not see the signs, not identified, simply can not see them, because your heart is hurt. It is vital to forget the old; to live again is vital to burn the coffin. Forgiveness is the smartest decision that you can make in your life.
“Lack of Forgiveness puts a barrier between you and God. Between His blessings and you. Between you and your Ideal couple.” – Matthew 5:23-24
2. My Preparation
Do you think that can be alone with your ideal couple without losing control of your sexual area? Do you think that you can now spend more time talking to your ideal couple, rather than just cuddling and kissing? Can you continue to serve with the same passion to Jesus, even when you already have your ideal couple? and the most radical of everything: Wanna already married? The answer to these questions determines your level of PREPARATION.
The Singleness is not eternal, it is temporary; not mean sadness, but preparation; does not end in forever alone, but in Ideal couple.
You must understand something: you are asking to God Almighty, Creator of heavens and earth, that give you to His Daughter(Son) to take care, Love Him(her) and honor Him(her) for the rest of your life. You are NOT asking to present “an person “, you are asking Him to trust you enough to give you the life of His Daughter (Son). “Treat her well, remember she’s My Daughter…” those were the words that God used to change radical and completely my idea about my partner; was a mental shock, the Lord made me understand that the person that came to my side as Companion of life is HER DAUGHTER, in other words, God is my “father-in-law”; how give me the Lord to my ideal couple, if the only thing that really I long is to satisfy my sexual desire with His Daughter (Son)? Preparation is synonymous with character. Having self-control to say NO when you must say no, and say yes when you should say yes. That means being ready for the next stage of our life. Pornography, marijuana, profanity, alienation from God, our perverted eyes, our immaturity of want just “enjoy the life”… are examples of a character that has yet to be molded by the Master ; all be molded, you are like clay in the Potter’s hands, if you TRUST, and reposes without yelling and without fear in His Hands, He will complete the perfect work that longs to do in you, and then with joy He will guide you to the person that with Love design to complement your life and marry forever.
“Above all else, guard your heart of lust, fear, resentment and unforgiveness for everything you do flows from it.” Proverbs 4:23
3. My Privacy
Some people has experienced the same thing that the people of Israel in the wilderness, go round for many years, instead of going directly to the Presence of God and thus be led by He to his promised land. Do not fall into that catastrophic mistake. Remember that your ideal couple is NOT in the world, is with God, so Seek Him and with Love He introduces to you. Intimacy is the Key Principle of all our emotional area. For what? Because it is precisely in the Presence of God that we are healed of our painful past, prepared to clean our present, and guided to our future: ideal couple. Prayer has no substitutes.
DO NOT use your Singleness to damage your heart with fear, marijuana, porno or rancor, use it to heal your heart in the Presence of God.
The Singleness is not a place of torment is a place of divine, human and emotional Preparation; is our ring training, is our University of life … is OUR Living room of Intimacy with God, is the place where God MORE speaks to us throughout our human life because it is the key time that forges your Destiny and Purpose in Earth. But unfortunately there are still people that this beautiful and Mighty time in your waiting room, they use it to attempt suicide and fill your heart and mind of those clogs and paradigms that prevent them from being happy then the rest of their lives. It’s time to change that. Emotional health is not achieved with your partner, is not achieved in medical and psychiatric consultations, nor does listening to sad songs or “letting time pass”, the desired and ESSENTIAL emotional healing is raised on Intimacy with God within Your Singleness, is where God deals with us, heal our esteem, prepare our hearts and reveals the MOST important and that is why many go round and round and round in life: who is our ideal couple; is there in the waiting room where things happen, where health is raised and maintained, where the direct fire form Word of God in Prayer and Fasting, burns us the coffin of old fears, resentments, fears, doubts, conflicts emotional, family fights, abuse, loneliness, depression and sadness, and we are healed completely… there, in that place that many hate and others fear it, that place that many curse, this beautiful and magical place is where we need to be trained and prepared to life YOUR emotional life… yes, the Singleness. God loves you deeply and has a wonderful plan for your life, do not despair or try to accelerate the time of God on your life because you can not made it. The key to success is to fully trust God and allow Him to direct your life. While you stay with God your future be guarantee and full of Love, the only decision you will have is to remain united to JESUS, let the important decisions to Who knows what to do: GOD.
Every time you have fear, doubt or anger, go to the presence of God, there will find answers to all your questions. Prayer, Worship and Bible. That’s Intimacy with Him, split QUALITY time to be with Him. Singleness is NOT the same as loneliness. God is always with you to listen, heal you, and guide you to your ideal couple.